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  • Writer's pictureEveline Gonzenbach

Redefining Beauty: Embracing Authenticity

In a world saturated with images of what society deems beautiful, it's time to pause and reflect on the profound impact beauty standards have on our lives. From glossy magazine covers to flawless Instagram feeds, we are bombarded with an idealized version of beauty that often feels unattainable. But isn't it time we question these standards and celebrate the diverse beauty that exists in all of us?

The Myth of the Ideal Beauty

From a young age, many of us are taught to aspire to a particular image of beauty. Clear skin, a perfectly symmetrical face, a specific body shape – these are the ideals we are told to chase. Yet, these standards are not only unrealistic but also exclusionary. True beauty knows no boundaries, no age, and no color.

As a wide-eyed 10-year-old, a playground accident gifted me a profound lesson in beauty. Falling hard on the unforgiving concrete, I bit my lip, leading to four stitches on my inner upper lip. But what's intriguing is that even at that young age, I was already preoccupied with a seemingly trivial question - would I ever be able to wear lipstick? Little did I know that this experience would become a symbol of embracing authenticity.

My faint scar and until today still a bit swollen upper lip, whispered stories of resilience, teaching me that true beauty isn't about perfection but about celebrating our unique journeys. It's about having the confidence to wear our stories, scars and all, as badges of honor. This childhood mishap laid the foundation for my belief that beauty is found in embracing our imperfections and confidently being ourselves, no matter what life etches on our skin.

Embracing Individuality

Authentic beauty is found in the quirks and imperfections that make each person unique. The freckles on your cheeks, the scars that tell your life's story, the lines that form when you smile - these are the marks of a life well-lived. Embracing your individuality means accepting these features, not as flaws but as part of what makes you uniquely beautiful.

The Power of Self-Love

The journey to redefining beauty starts with self-love. It's about looking in the mirror and seeing not just the flaws but the strengths, the character, and the soul that resides within. Self-love isn't about arrogance; it's about recognizing your worth beyond physical appearances. It's about knowing that you are enough just as you are.

Media's Role

The media plays a crucial role in defining beauty standards, but it also offers a platform for transformation. It's truly heartening to witness a growing number of model agencies, brands and publications daring to challenge the conventional beauty norms by showcasing models and individuals who defy traditional expectations. This shift, which is undeniably a step in the right direction, is something I greatly appreciate.

Your Definition of Beauty

Ultimately, beauty is a deeply personal concept. It's about how you see yourself and how you perceive the world around you. It's about the kindness in your heart, the warmth of your smile, and the way you make others feel. It's the way you carry yourself with confidence and grace, embracing your unique essence.


It's high time we collectively redefine beauty standards. Beauty isn't one-size-fits-all; it's a kaleidoscope of colors, shapes, and experiences. The journey to embracing authentic beauty starts within, with self-love and acceptance. It continues by celebrating the diversity of beauty that surrounds us every day. Let's break free from the constraints of narrow beauty ideals and create a world where everyone can shine in their unique way. After all, the most beautiful thing you can be is yourself.

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Oct 17, 2023

So inspiring, thank you for sharing your story Eveline and for always fighting the beauty standards which we women just cannot fulfill. It really is time for more authenticity in the model industry, I totally agree with you!

Eveline Gonzenbach
Eveline Gonzenbach
Oct 19, 2023
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Hi dear, thank you very much! I appreciate your comment on my blog about redefining beauty. I am very happy to hear that I inspired you!

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